tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480141128837928501.post4035774694886385868..comments2023-03-31T04:52:21.597-04:00Comments on Afterwards: 9 monthsAshleighhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04483699312375749242noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480141128837928501.post-81792374055790559082008-05-05T11:27:00.000-04:002008-05-05T11:27:00.000-04:00I am so glad that you have begun the process of le...I am so glad that you have begun the process of letting him go. For me, some days are better than others. I can feel like I'm doing pretty well, then I look at my nephew and can't stop thinking about what should have been.Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08514262423005456861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480141128837928501.post-18860058604642284042008-05-01T22:34:00.000-04:002008-05-01T22:34:00.000-04:00What a wonderful post. I am so glad you are feeli...What a wonderful post. I am so glad you are feeling peace and gently moving on. But he is always part of you. Very lovely words. Thinking of you and him. xAngehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04247910522550279292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480141128837928501.post-44092917679372163092008-05-01T10:49:00.000-04:002008-05-01T10:49:00.000-04:00A lot more things can grow in nine months than we ...A lot more things can grow in nine months than we realize...including hope:)k@laklyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05366772609212990882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480141128837928501.post-5507296336483142412008-05-01T06:16:00.000-04:002008-05-01T06:16:00.000-04:00That was a beautiful post. 9 months does seem so s...That was a beautiful post. 9 months does seem so symbolic. I am glad you are finding peace. Thinking of you.CLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08030787972960755420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480141128837928501.post-4412815415332037302008-04-30T14:50:00.000-04:002008-04-30T14:50:00.000-04:00Ashleigh, this was a beautiful post. It feels odd...Ashleigh, this was a beautiful post. It feels odd to move forward, feeling that you are moving forward, and yet wanting to hold on. So glad you are reaching some peace with the process and with your love for Owen.Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03812637630030228124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480141128837928501.post-39290889521678631702008-04-30T13:22:00.000-04:002008-04-30T13:22:00.000-04:00This is so beautiful, even if it had to come from ...This is so beautiful, even if it had to come from a place of sorrow. Hugs to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480141128837928501.post-47375237636128967482008-04-30T12:21:00.000-04:002008-04-30T12:21:00.000-04:00Oh Ash, this is beautiful. It warms my heart for ...Oh Ash, this is beautiful. It warms my heart for you and Owen.<BR/><BR/>Much love<BR/>GG$https://www.blogger.com/profile/05010373805685335151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480141128837928501.post-82020130510876670442008-04-30T11:28:00.000-04:002008-04-30T11:28:00.000-04:00Ashleigh,You have written about this dreaded marke...Ashleigh,<BR/>You have written about this dreaded marker in the most beautiful, touching way. I am so sorry that Owen cannot be here with you today, but I am happy to know it is at this point you are beginning to find some peace with it all. Hopefully, I can get there, too. Thinking of you today and your sweet little Owen. XO.c.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02933776400434137451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480141128837928501.post-79957082317648820022008-04-30T10:12:00.000-04:002008-04-30T10:12:00.000-04:00gorgeous words ashleigh. he is with you forever a...gorgeous words ashleigh. he is with you forever and a piece of your heart is dedicated to him, as are pieces of your heart for your other children.Clarissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13920705151427576723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480141128837928501.post-7965276673984078422008-04-30T09:37:00.000-04:002008-04-30T09:37:00.000-04:00This is gorgeous, and I love the positivity in it....This is gorgeous, and I love the positivity in it. I am still so sorry you lost him, but I am glad you are starting to find some peace in it all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2480141128837928501.post-84098028303046879432008-04-30T08:25:00.000-04:002008-04-30T08:25:00.000-04:00It was 9 months for me yesterday. It does somehow...It was 9 months for me yesterday. It does somehow seem more significant than the other monthly markers. <BR/><BR/>I've had the same journey - the "I wish I never was pregnant" moments all the way through to "I'm a better person for it" and everything in between.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10127954206218934557noreply@blogger.com